by Amy | Jan 5, 2018 | Caregiving & Friendship
What do you do when you visit a sick friend? When your friend or loved one is sick or injured, either at the hospital or at home, visiting is important. But it can be awkward and uncomfortable. Rest and recuperation can be depressing. Once you’ve marathon...
by Amy | Dec 21, 2017 | Caregiving & Friendship
If have an intimidating medical appointment, it is always wise to take a loved one. When you are in pain or worried, you miss stuff. You forget details. You start thinking about the ramifications of one statement and miss the next 3. Having a backup with you is great...
by Amy | Sep 21, 2017 | Caregiving & Friendship
Everyone has heard the analogy of the frog in boiling water. I don’t know how true it is, but I use it a lot. Especially to describe chronic pain. If you drop a frog in boiling water, he will jump out because it feels hot, but if you put him in cold water and...
by Amy | Sep 19, 2016 | Caregiving & Friendship
I am lucky, I have cared for and been cared for all of my life. My family and I have had more than our share of medical care over the years. It doesn’t get easier, but it is manageable. You can be the caregiver or just a supportive friend, but regardless of your...
by Amy | Sep 5, 2016 | Caregiving & Friendship
Choosing a gift for someone in the hospital or who is at home recuperating is difficult. Flowers are impractical; their water has to be changed; they die and smell bad; they are not uplifting for long. Food is a no-no if they are on a restricted diet. And personal...
by Amy | Feb 23, 2008 | Caregiving & Friendship
Everywhere you look are ghosts. They are memories best not remembered, at least now, while they are still raw. They hit you when you are least expecting them, taking your breath away. It is time to reclaim your home. After any emotional trauma you need to make peace...